When the topic of favorites of anything comes up, I am usually at a loss to pick one. That is exactly the case now, with favorite or most influential teacher the subject of this week's Think Write Thursday. So many names pop up. Some, like Mrs. Olsen or Mrs. Barnes from elementary school, I remember so fondly but can't begin to explain why. No clear memories, I just get all smiley when their names skip through the old brain matter. Others, from high school in particular, I crushed on, male and female. The crushes on women teachers was very different than those I felt for the male teachers. The women did not provoke lust, I just wanted to be like them.
One of those, Mrs. R, was young, vibrant, not so much pretty as compelling and kind of like colorful fireworks. She was one of my English teachers. The only assignment I remember from her was describe a tomato. Oh, I had fun with that, turned all my exploding hormones loose and wrote salaciously about ripe curves and dripping juices. That was perhaps the first time I realized just how much sex sells. I got an A. I was so crazy about Mrs. R that when she mentioned how much she loved horses, I invited her to go riding with me at the barn where my horse lived. She accepted, probably against all kinds of rules but we didn't tell anyone else so there were no repercussions. I don't know what I expected or hoped for with that invitation. I already got good grades so I wasn't trying to influence that. But we had a good time, just that once. And with the end of the semester, that was pretty much the end of any hoped for friendship.
Then there was Mr. G, a college professor. He was a marshmallow, soft in habits, voice, and fitness, plump, sweet, my first journalism professor. I only took his intro class because it filled a requirement outside of my major and fit a very tight schedule. Our first assignment was to interview a faculty or staff member. I got an A on that, too, along with an invitation to join the college newspaper staff. Talk about approval! That led the way to so many exciting college experiences. I pitched and got my own newspaper column, got to attend 2 collegiate newspaper conferences which included travel a few states away and a tour of the US Air Force Academy (they hosted one conference), worked on editing a compilation book of poetry with Mr. G, and mostly learned there were career potentials with writing. Science was the emphasis at home, not creative pursuits, so that was a big eye opener for me.
Another college professor, Robin, was also in journalism. She too was quite soft spoken, sweet, and roundish, but somehow she had much more strength and solidity, no marshmallow, she. The first assignment she handed out was to describe ourselves. That was quite a challenge. And it ended up being my first published essay. I got paid $60 for it. I studied with Robin over the next few years and honed my writing skills beyond all my expectations. And just as importantly, Robin taught me to believe in myself.
I can't pick out any of them as my favorite. Each of them helped me progress, and each built on the progress I made with those who came before them. Each was a distinct personality but they had that quality, that gift, that really good teachers have. They didn't just teach. They encouraged, fanned a fragile flame that eventually ignited. That encouragement was strong enough that when someone else nearly snuffed out the flame, thinking back on Mrs. R, Mr. G, and Robin still feeds the spark with hope. Instead of labeling one as a favorite, I see each of them as one of the good ones, and I am ever thankful to have studied with each of them.